Pet Peeves

Today I'm going to be talking about my pet peeves. Alright, you may seriously not be interested but please bear with me for a while while I get some things off my whining list. I've been thinking about my pet peeves for the longest time ever.

What exactly is to be considered a pet peeve? And I realised that for example, you say that you hate people who are selfish, it's not considered a pet peeve. A pet peeve should be more specific and not generalized like the term 'selfish'. Instead, you say you hate people who refuse to lend anyone anything. That's a pretty bad example, but you get it. So let's get into it!

1) People who spam Whatsapp Group Convos especially late at night.
I've been thinking about my pet peeves for forever and this just always happens to be first on the list. I'm talking about people who wanna talk to only ONE specific person about something and he/she has to communicate his/her idea through a WHATSAPP GROUP. Why can't you just talk to that person on another personal conversation?

Especially when it's already 11pm/12am/1am and PEOPLE ARE ALREADY ASLEEP/PREPARING TO SLEEP. Even if you have something to say to the ENTIRE group of people can you please collate all your points in just ONE message instead of spamming? People like me need my beauty sleep and even if I turn my phone on silent mode it still VIBRATES. It's super irritating when I'm already about to fall asleep and my phone starts to vibrate for 1863 times. On another note, if you have something urgent to say please just call the person. Ok, please learn to maximise the potential of your phone.

2) People who walk super slowly in front of you / People who walk in groups.
People who walk super slowly pisses me off like crazy. Ok I understand that everyone walks at different speeds so let's skip this. But people like that still piss me off. Next, people who walk in groups and WALK SLOWLY is the ultimate BOMB. Like a bunch of school kids walking together, talking loudly and walking super slowly and BLOCK UP THE PATHWAY. Please get something straight in your mind: you don't own the pathway. If you have something SO important to speak to your friend please sit down somewhere at a cafe and talk. Do not talk while walking and block people's way. Ugh.

3) Smokers who walk while smoking.
Basically, I just hate all smokers. BUT, I especially hate smokers who walk while they smoke! Why can't you stay fixed on a spot while smoking? I'd totally appreciate that. Because while you are walking, the smoke TRAVELS. And if I am walking behind you, the smoke all comes to ME. When you are walking, the smoke goes EVERYWHERE. I understand that you are a smoker and do not mind harming your own health but please do not go to the extent of endangering our healths PLEASE.

4) People who use utensils while eating a burger.
I am weird but because I work part time at a burger joint and I always see people asking me for utensils. Excuse me but why are you cutting your burger up into pieces and eating it? Why can't you hold it in your hands? A burger is meant to be held in hands!!! OH MY GOD. I can't stop staring at these people like seriously I DON'T GET IT. Why make your life miserable? Grrrrr.

5) People who stand too close to me on public transport.
I seriously cannot emphasise anymore on this. I know that there are a lot of people wanting to get up the train and you are probably late for work and you just want to squeeze up the train no matter how packed it is but can you please leave a little bit of space for me too? I don't want to spend the trip staring at your armpit/tummy/chin/breathing onto your face. Every morning as I travel to school I cannot help but flare while I'm on trains. And I'll start to spam Twitter with angry phrases. Even my friend is annoyed with me. BUT I JUST CANNOT CONTROL MY ANGER AT THESE PEOPLE. Social distance ALRIGHT, PLEASE LEARN.


I'm done for now because as I type this I'm getting too agitated. BYES

人生

人生不如意十之八九
我不知道这一切是不是上帝想要给我们的什么启示
但无论如何
我只希望任何考验到此结束
难道我们经历过的一切真的还不够多吗？
到底要我们再经历多少次失去？
正面的力量已经快要被消耗掉了
只希望
一切
都能好转
但我坚信
意志力
能够让他
苏醒。

温柔

如果你对我说 你想要一朵花 那么 我就会给你一朵花
如果你对我说 你想要一颗星星 那么 我就会给你一颗星星
如果你对我说 你想要一场雪 那么 我就会给你一场雪
如果你对我说 你想要离开我 那么 我会说 我会对你说
我给你自由 我给你自由 我给你自由 我给你自由  我给你全部全部全部全部全部自由
这就是我唯一能够给你的温柔 还给你的自由 我们之间 只剩温柔的问候 好吗

守护还是缘分？

有人说缘分是天注定，但是在现实的世界，
你以为真的靠天赐良缘，就可以终生美满吗？

所有可以修成正果的关系其实都是靠人为，
是靠两个人无时无刻的努力，用心经营，
当然不可以吊儿郎当，否则漫漫人生怎么可以天长地久守护对方？

守护一个人，重点是要守护到底，
不过说倒容易，做就很难，就算对朋友、对家人，
大大小小的考验根本数之不尽，不过只要你没有把考验当作伤痕，
懂得忘记和原谅，你已经掌握到守护一个人最大的窍门。
而且过后你也一定会感激有这些大大小小的考验，
陪你们一起成长，无论好日子还是坏日子，都有人和你并肩作战。

输了一场仗，赢了一场仗，都有人等你回来，和你一起笑一起哭，
你守护他，她守护你，多么温馨。
但问题是世界上到底先有缘分天使还是先有守护天使？
你是因为守护一个人，所以和他结缘？
还是因为你和他有缘，注定会守护对方一生一世？

Captain Koo 《冲上云霄II》

The end (SPOILERS)

goodbye my fav show for the year
goodbye my fav guy sam gor
goodbye my fav couple sam x holiday
goodbye triumph in the skies II

my life feels so empty now I have nothing else to look forward to

having real bad withdrawal symptoms again gahhhhhhhhh

I hope the next show can take my mind off this for a while :(

sweet

just a little comment for the ending. I felt the ending was a little too abrupt coz they wanted to end things off quickly. a lot of scenes were also not included and they went ahead to the end where everyone just got paired up happily etc. one of my favourite things was how they made Holiday realised that she loved Sam more during an about-to-die moment on the plane. I also loved how they made Sam and Jayden worked together to save the plane. it was so freaking awesome to see those two pilots controlling the plane together, 型到爆! also really loved the ending that they did by flashing back on all the small little moments in the past. and I loved how they made Jayden speak at the background in the end. he was so cool when he said he was going to protect the world and instead of 300 people, he was gonna protect 60 billion people. major love!

sorry for the spoilers. just couldn't resist.

skylette 223, ready for take off! (can't get this off my mind)

BYE

A little rant about my hong kong drama (SPOILERS)

Today's (or rather, last night's) episode of Triumph in the Skies was pretty interesting as compared to the last few episodes of the week. Right now the plot is so scattered and focused on a lot of things that I feel the scriptwriters are a bit confused themselves.

The characters are starting to go haywire a little. Sam and Holiday are becoming intolerant towards each other and they have quite a few arguments. Which I guess is so that the audience may feel that Jayden is gonna get a second chance. And even though I 99.99% believe that Holiday is going to end up with Sam, there is still a 0.01% convincing me that the ending may turn out to be different.

And the whole thing with Issac and Summer? Issac is being a total ass by making Summer do all the things that a MAN should be doing. I know he feels disappointed that Summer actually gave up on their relationship earlier just coz of an about-to-die Josie. But Issac is being so unmanly and self-centered because he doesn't place himself in Summer's shoes AT ALL. And although I know the scriptwriters just wanna make them get together at THE END, hence they start to create more problems between these two, these problems really piss me off a little.

And focusing on the small bits of Apple's love life and her reuniting with her brother is so pointless because nobody gives a damn. You know I'd rather watch them focus more on airplanes and whatnot.

I feel that the scriptwriters are focusing too much on irrelevant stuff, so much so that they themselves are unable to take care of so many details. That's why all the characters start to contradict and the plot starts to go haywire. I really hope the next few episodes wouldn't let me down and please give me a good ending. I don't wanna be so worked up over a drama that's gonna let me down eventually, PLEASE.


Right now I'm just having a flu and staying home to rest coz I have work tomorrow (yuck). On the bright side, it's an off day for me on Sunday coz I'm going to the bird park with my family. FAMILY DAY. I love spending time with my family. Tiiillll thhhennnnn xx

DTRM Retreat 2013

Yesterday I was a GL at the annual DTRM Bonding Day. I never thought I'd be selected as a GL because so many people signed up for it! And I can't be more thankful that the main comm decided to allocate 3 GLs to each group so that more people can participate and I guess that's why I got my chance!

It was a really exhausting day, doesn't help that the weather was crazily hot yet it drizzled a little at the same time. Waking up at 6.30am clearly didn't help as well. But I'm really glad everything went on smoothly and the freshies actually enjoyed themselves!

I was allocated to the same group as Chunen and Jasmine and we were the KNIGHTS! Didn't take any picture with the both of them but we took 2 group photos with our freshies!

Our group was one of the biggest groups coz a lot of freshies didn't turn up. All the GMs were shocked to see we had such a large number of people! Thank you so much to them for taking time out of your holiday to participate in this event! Honestly I really had a lot of fun with you guys and I really never regretted signing up to be a GL.

I think it's really heartwarming how every batch of DTRM students can bond together, not only just within their own class, not just within their own batch, but even bonding among seniors and juniors as well! I'm not a very well known senior and I have never been since primary school till now. But taking part in this event made me know a lot of you people and I honestly wish the best for your poly journey and I hope you guys won't ever regret joining the course.

It is always till the end that I start to realise how things are all worth the while and effort. I was really happy when you guys said goodbye and thank you to me when you all were leaving. And I swear we owe you guys a bigger thank you because it wouldn't be so fun without you guys! We'd always be the shining knights with our ever sounding CHING CHINGs!! ♥♥

while waiting for the freshies to arrive

after lunch time

after lunch time x2

Another memory added to my poly life! Cheeerrrrsssss